Wednesday, 7 May 2025

BECOMING ONE

It is 3am and I am awakened by the need to go to the loo and cannot seem to get back to sleep. So I turn towards my laptop. There is nothing new in these pages and in these writings. It has all been said before by the great masters before us. But we have to keep reminding ourselves of our true nature and that we could realize it immediately. So what is it that is holding us back? A sense of peace comes from knowing that Agathiyar will look into matters in good time, as he previously did. 

He had asked that I abstain from doing anything. Previously, having shut me up in my home, he then released me, asking me to step out to see the world around me and laugh it off. He was teaching me non-interference. Agathiyar, who brought us to carry out many activities collectively, finally broke the group Agathiyar Vanam Malaysia (AVM) and halted these activities, and had each man work out the path for himself. Each has to work out the path for himself, though the Siddhas point us the way. Institutions are necessary for academic studies and purposes, but to study the soul, one has to leave the crowd and venture alone into the deep recesses of one's self. Only hard work and effort pave the way. Discipline and focus help to ensure that one stays on the path. 

J. Krishnamurthi dissolved the very establishment that he was groomed to take over and asked its followers to chart their own path and make that discovery. 

His own pain had given him this insight. Nita's death was the crucible in which his inner freedom was forged and Krishnamurthi never turned back. He walked away from the "Order of the Star". He walked away from the very stage that had been built for him in 1929. He stood before thousands and said "Truth is a pathless land." He dissolved the order that had once crowned him its leader. People wept. Others were shocked but for Krishnamurthi it was the most natural step. He had seen too deeply to play the game of spiritual leadership. From that moment onward he refused to be anyone's guru. He would say "If you follow me you are following no one. I have no teaching. I have no followers." His message was subtle and profound. He pointed to attention, to choiceless awareness, to the understanding of the self not through suppression but through observation. He spoke of fear not as something to conquer but as something to understand. He spoke of love not as desire, not as attachment but as that which is only possible when the self is not and always he returned to one truth - the need for inner revolution. Not political. Not social. Not ideological but psychological revolution - a total ending of the old patterns - the conditioned mind, the known. He would say "To transform the world you must begin with yourself but not as an isolated individual. You're the world. Your consciousness is not separate from that of humanity."

The man who had once been prepared to be a spiritual messiah now began to speak not as a guru but as a mirror. He had no doctrine, no dogma, no path to follow. He said "I am not leading you to something. I'm only pointing out what is you must be - a light to yourself." He traveled, he spoke not to convert, not to persuade but to awaken. Again and again he would return to the same essential point that truth cannot be organized, that any belief no matter how noble becomes a prison when accepted blindly. He saw how the mind in its fear creates illusions. We seek comfort in beliefs, in religious identity, in spiritual authority but that comfort is dangerous. It dulls the mind. It prevents direct perception. He said, "When you're no longer seeking comfort but are capable of facing fear, insecurity, loneliness, then there is a possibility of going beyond." 

This radical vision was too much for many. Some left. Others remained confused. But a few stayed and listened not to worship but to inquire. As the years passed his presence became quieter, more distilled. He would walk in silence for hours. He would listen to birds, to wind, to the stillness of a morning sky. He carried with him a deep intensity but without weight, without identity. He had no name for what he had become. He was not a Hindu, not a Buddhist, not a philosopher, not a mystic. He was simply a human being completely awake and all of it, every word, every silence, every truth was born from that single shattering loss the death of his brother for in that death Krishnamurthi had discovered the nature of all illusion and in the breaking of that illusion something vast and sacred had opened up within him - not something supernatural but something profoundly human that which remains when there is no fear, no belief, no image - just clarity, just awareness, just love.



When I told Tavayogi that I had a desire to see both Agathiyar and Ramalinga Adigal, he turned around and asked me if that was what I wanted. I knew that instant that this was not what one should desire. 

H.W.L. Poonja wrote "How I came to the Maharshi" for the Saranagathi eNewsletter, June 2010, originally published in  "The  Mountain  Path", July  1965.

When  I grew up I joined  the army. However my  desire for God-experience grew  so  strong that after some years I resigned and decided to  devote my life to sadhana. I wanted to  become a sannyasin  but  could  not  because I had a  wife and  children  to look after. I started visiting Swamis and asked each one point blank: “Have  you seen  God and  can  you show me God?” I would allow  no  hedging.  If they began to talk  around it I said: “Please give me a straight yes or no.” I found no one who could answer ‘yes’ and returned to my  home in the Punjab feeling very  depressed.

One day  my  wife was just  serving my midday meal when a sadhu came and  stood in the  doorway. I invited him in and told her  to  serve him food  too  and then asked him whether he  could direct  me to a Swami who  could show me God.  He  told  me  that  I  could  find  what  I  was looking for from Ramana Maharshi of Tiruvannamalai. It was the first time that I had heard of  the  Maharshi or of Tiruvannamalai, so I wrote down  both  names. But how was I to  get  there? It was  right down in the South, and  my funds were almost exhausted. However, the next day I saw an advertisement in the paper for an ex-army  man to run a canteen in Madras. I  applied and  was at once given the  post  and my fare paid. When  I got  to Madras I said that I must first pay a visit to  Tiruvannamalai  before taking up my duties. Arriving  there,  I  dumped  my  bedding  in the Ashram dormitory and went into  the meditation  hall; and who should I see  there on the  couch but the sadhu who had visited  me at my  home in the Punjab! I decided that he was a  fraud. He  had been travelling about India boosting  himself and  had then  taken a train back and arrived before me. So I got up and left the hall. I  got my bedding and  was just putting it back  on  the  horse-cart that had brought me from the station when  a devotee  asked  me  why I  was leaving so soon. I  told him  and  he said: “It must  be a mistake, because the  Maharshi  has never left this place since  he first came nearly fifty  years ago.  Either it was someone  else you saw  or  he  appeared to  you by supernatural power.”  So I  was  back to  the  hall.

As soon as  I had an  opportunity to see Bhagavan alone  I asked him my  usual question. I  added: “It's a bargain. I am  willing  to pay any  price,  even my  life, but your part of  the bargain is to  enable me to  see God.” At first he  sat silent, but I said “That's no  good; I don't  understand silence. Please give me a  straight answer.”  Then he said: “I can enable you rather to be God than to see God.” A few days later, I went for a walk in the rough country at the foot of the north slope of Arunachala and fell into a state of ecstasy during which I again had a vision of Sri Krishna. When I got back, I told Bhagavan. He asked me: “Can you see Krishna now?” I said, “No; only when I have a vision.” So he said: “What is the use of a God who comes and goes? If he is a real God he should be with you always.”

If initially we are brought up to see God as an entity residing outside in the form of paintings and statues, the true guru comes to point us to God who resides within. Tavayogi, who stepped into my home for the very first time, blasted me, telling me that I was living in Maya and disillusioned, seeing him as God in the garb and guise of a Sadhu, Samiyar, Turavi, mendicant, hermit, and sage. He told me that he was nobody and that I should look within. The light that resides within can go by any name, but he chose to call it Agathiyar. Taking hold of his words, I embarked on a new journey of discovering God within me. The rituals he taught me bridged both worlds, and the Siddhas came visiting us. Just as I expressed my love and happiness at having Tavayogi over at my home, I expressed the same to Agathiyar. He, like Tavayogi, snubbed me, telling me that I should even forget him. Asking him how I was to forget him when he was my world now, he asked me, "How else shall we become One?"